The Lesser Spotted Sex Trafficked Victim.
Across the globe, a new variety of ‘spiritual’ leader is arising to cheers from the grim faced populace. The ‘moral’ guardian. We have no truck any longer with men in long black dresses, with books full of unbelievable factoids and fantasies, as guides for what is right and wrong. They cannot be ‘trusted’, they cannot be believed.
In their place, we have a new variety of celebrity ‘spiritual’ leaders. We are encouraged to accept everything they say; they ‘know more than they can reveal’, they are privy to the innermost secrets of dark and dangerous practices that we must be protected from. We cluster round them, anxious to hear more of their factoids and fantasies, as guides for what is right and what is wrong. Can they be any more believed than the men in black dresses? Does it actually matter if their claims are any more believable than that of feeding the five thousand on five little fishes? Surely the ‘good’ that they are achieving in righting wrongs matters more than whether the back story that led them to prominence is accurate or a flight of fantasy?
When you appoint yourself the ‘moral guardian’ of a ‘vulnerable child’ or ‘vulnerable adult’ by the very label of ‘vulnerable’ you have undermined their ability to think or act for themselves. You have invalidated whatever decisions they made in life in a manner that they can only escape by going along with your solution. The ‘moral guardians’ have a veritable lexicon of emotive words – trafficked, enslaved, trapped, abused, disempowered – that they use to place their chosen victims in a trap of the guardian’s choosing. Is that trap any better than the one they are apparently being rescued from? If we are to believe that it is, then it is important that we have total faith in the ‘rescuer’, the moral guardian. We cannot have that faith if they are not truthful.
Is there any difference between the qualitative value of a priesthood that takes the spare cash, to support itself, of a deprived population on promises of a better future in the hereafter, the lawyer that takes a chunk of charity money, to support itself, from a damaged population on promises of a better future with ‘compensation’ or the NGO who takes government money, to support itself, from a damaged population on promises of a better future working in a sweat-shop? The NGOs, the lawyers, the priests, the moral guardians, all have a similar ability to prey – or pray – on people enslaved by their chosen labels.
It has taken us hundreds of years to question whether the victims of the priesthood (and though I use the term priesthood, I actually refer to all organised religious groups) might actually have been better off without their tender ministrations; fortunately, there are still a few determined journalists who are questioning the morals and motives of those NGOs who support their lifestyle by claiming never ending grants for saving ‘vulnerable adults’ – in the latest case, that of the ‘victims of sex trafficking in Cambodia’. Simon Marks, his name is, and a brave man he is too; he will no doubt be labelled a ‘rape apologist’ for daring to question the behaviour of those who seek to ‘rescue trafficked women’ from a life of ‘enslaved prostitution’, for it is out of the question that any mere woman could have chosen to let herself be so ‘abused’ by evil men, nor that any sort of life would not be better than ‘selling her body’.
Simon has been following the progress of Somaly Mam as she rose to prominence on a tsunami of emotive credentials built on her back story of a tragic survivor of sexual abuse in a mysterious world of tribal villagers and sacred spirits. It was a world as unknown to most of us as is the hereafter – we had to trust the story teller. Mam was able to escape her alleged life of servitude by her own efforts – she met and married a Frenchman, Pierre Legros. It is strange how often the moral guardians are themselves untouched by the supposedly inescapable evils that others must be protected from.
Mam and Legros formed an NGO, one which appealed to the media. They were going to rescue the helpless, hapless Cambodian girls from a lifetime of being forced to sell their bodies. The very idea that this might be a choice for some of the girls was a heresy; that they may chose to ‘escape’ of their own volition unthinkable. A moral guardian on the warpath is a near unstoppable force. Only a rape apologist could possibly voice such a thought.
Somaly Mam produced victims with excruciating stories for the media’s delectation. Long Pross, who ‘had an eye gouged out by an angry pimp’; Meas Ratha – ‘sold to a brothel and held against her will as a sex slave’. Mam herself claimed when she was invited to speak at the White House that she was ‘sold into slavery, aged 9, and spent a decade in a brothel’. Money and resources poured in to defeat this evil, these stories that ‘any journalist would want’. The focus of the US State Department shifted from counterterrorism to anti-human trafficking – many of the staff transferred from one department to another. Same people, different funding source. There is big money in fighting the good fight.
This good fight was little more than a Chimera; Meas Ratha has admitted she fabricated her story; Long Pross has suffered the indignity of being proved a liar when her medical records were unearthed and it was seen that her damaged eye was the result of a childhood tumour; Somaly Mam has resigned from the foundation after publication of more of Simon Mark’s meticulous journalism finding her old school friends testifying that she not only finished secondary education but then went off to teacher training college with them…
Now a few lies in the back story of those who are apparently doing so much good in the world might not matter, were it not for the inconvenient truth that those apparently ‘saved’ by Mam are then implanted into sweat shops – working for low wages for men producing cheap t-shirts worn by college students studying ‘gender issues’ in the US. It is just possible that some of those rescued had actually escaped from the sweat shops to a chosen lifestyle of sex worker. It’s scarcely progress is it – except for those carefully positioned in the middle, who pick up awards and grants along the way.
[Mam] was named a “Hero of Anti-Trafficking” by the U.S. State Department in 2007, Glamour’s “Woman of the Year” in 2006, and one of Time’s “Most Influential People” in 2009.
The counterpart to Mam’s evocative stories is Thomas Steinfatt, a professor of statistics at the University of Miami, who has done several reports on sex trafficking for the U.N.’s Inter-Agency Project on Human Trafficking.
In a 2008 study, for which he spent months conducting surveys in all corners of Cambodia, he estimated there were no more than 1,058 victims of trafficking in Cambodia and has said the situation has improved markedly since then.
The number of children, both those observed as sex workers and those mentioned by management or by sex workers in the 2008 data, was 127, with 11 of the children verifiably under age 15 and six under age 13. The high-end estimate for the number of children likely involved in sex work in Cambodia in 2008 was 310 children.
There is money and resources out there for those willing to do or say the right thing. Like the young women who lied for the media at Mam’s urging.
“A large number of organisations get sucked into using children to raise funds: making them talk about the abuse they survived in front of a camera, having their picture in a pitiful situation published for everyone to see. In worst cases, the truth is distorted or the stories invented to attract more compassion and money. The impact on the lives of these children is terrible: If they come from an abusive situation, such a process re-traumatises them and in any case it stigmatises them forever.”
- Mudplugger
May 30, 2014 at 2:01 pm -
As with most forms of international aid and ‘charity’, it simply moves money from poor folk in rich countries to rich folk in poor countries. ‘Twas ever thus.
- Eddy
May 30, 2014 at 2:48 pm -
A very nice article Anna. We must believe the victim when they tell their tale! There are a lot of fools and liars out there, keep a tight hold on your purse and your sanity.
- Alan Scott
May 30, 2014 at 5:15 pm -
It makes your heart bleed for the real victims who -?fortunately – escape the attentions of these noxious dogooders.
- Eric
May 30, 2014 at 5:28 pm -
Had just read these reports and here you are Anna on top of it again.
I have done business in Cambodia and I dislike the place. But only because of the NGOs there.
They are ruthless and dangerous. And there a dozen more like Mam- some ex-British & Australian cops. Ex-pats in Cambodia tread warily because of these NGOs. there are dozens and dozens of non-accreditated “orphanages” that are highly suspect AS WELL.
The Australian mining magnate Gina Rinehart just got ripped off for over $1M by a bunch of NGOs who have used the money for 4 wheel drives and luxury houses.One that badly needs exposing is APLE run by a fruitcake but vicious Frenchman. APLE has no qualms in setting up Western tourists. Usually the same child is used over and over again. The Frenchman with a decidedly suspect background ranges from deep depressions having attempted suicide several times to a mania for unfettered power.
Amazingly like Somaly Mam they get huge donations without every having to explain where the money went.Simon Marks is indeed a brave man. Cambodia is a dangerous place and 100s of corrupt offIcials feed off the Mams of the place and enable their activities.
- Duncan Disorderly
May 30, 2014 at 5:52 pm -
“Some argue that the practice of exaggerating stories is widespread among activists. “[I] find it unfair to point solely at Afesip for fabricating stories about its typical beneficiaries. This has been and still is the approach that all major international NGOs use, in Cambodia and elsewhere,” Pierre Fallavier, a former adviser for Afesip, told Cambodia Daily last year. “They take bits and parts of the life stories of different beneficiaries and make up a ‘typical’ sob story that they use to raise funds with.”
- Cascadian
May 30, 2014 at 9:47 pm -
“They take bits and parts of the life stories of different beneficiaries and make up a ‘typical’ sob story that they use to raise funds with.”………sounds a lot like Fairy Tales of my Father, Obumblers sob story. Now there is a fake fund-raising scheme that needs investigating.
The NGO’s have managed to blight only hundreds of lives, Obumbler has blighted the lives of millions.
- Cascadian
- Jim
May 30, 2014 at 6:01 pm -
A very brave article. Fantastic journalism and thought-provoking. On a similar note, I am getting very pissed off at the constant stream of “give £2 per month” ads that we see all the time on telly….how can a charity fund a continuous ad campaign on SKY? Seeing the same advert over and over just de-sensitises you.
Hearing people tell you to “just believe” them and then to find out they have lied through their teeth is totally horrible.
- Joe Public
May 30, 2014 at 7:19 pm -
Yet another article on a subject virtually-untouched by the UK MSM. Thanks Anna.
Subby’s report:- “Somaly Mam produced victims with excruciating stories for the media’s deletion.”
‘Delectation’ surely??
- Budvar
May 31, 2014 at 3:19 am -
Having been involved in a rape allegation (not me in the frame thankfully) it now seems that “Rape” now covers, even if she agrees, but halfway through decides she doesn’t, to carry on is rape. It gets better, if the lady in question is “Intoxicated” (Define that one) either through drink or drugs, and even though she’s as keen as mustard the night before (and at the time), she wakes up next morning and says to herself “Oh no I didn’t did I?”. Well that’s rape, as she wasn’t in any state to give “Informed” consent. We now have “Rape” defined as sex consensual or otherwise, if the “Victim” is vulnerable. (WTF does that even mean?).
So lads, you pull a young lady who happens to be a bit tiddly, you get her to sign an agreement to have sex (Notarised by your solicitor), and next morning she decides that “Well she didn’t really want to” in the cold light of day, you don’t look as much like Robert Redford as she remembered, expect to have your place turned upside down by a van full of flatfoots and be dragged out the house in handcuffs wearing a paper suit.
If she also happens to be “Vulnerable” (Which I take to mean as she’s a bit thick) you’re doubly fucked.
- Budvar
May 31, 2014 at 3:33 am -
I put one or two of thse examples to the solicitor, and his thoughts on the matter were, you could still be charged, but the notarised and signed agreement could be used in mitigation at the trial.
Whatever happened to personal responsibility?
- Engineer
May 31, 2014 at 1:00 pm -
Personal responsibility? It’s been nationalised. Apply to your local Social Services for permission to do almost anything. You’ll be supervised, of course – probably by an Officer of the Court or their nominated representative, as required by EU directive.
- Cascadian
May 31, 2014 at 5:17 pm -
“Personal responsibility? It’s been nationalised”………Somebody chisel that into stone, and mount on the vacant plinth at Trafalgar Square, and in other prominent places throughout the land.
A very astute observation, explains many of the ills besetting the land.
- Alan Douglas
June 1, 2014 at 10:23 am -
Joan Armatrading’s view in an early song was “Next time, take a little water with the wine”. I agree.
Alan Douglas
- Alan Douglas
- Cascadian
- Engineer
- Ms Mildred
May 31, 2014 at 8:57 am -
It does get so irritating, all these tele adverts using sick children and animals lingering on the screen, usually when you are trying to chill out. All it does is close my mind to wanting to help. I helped all my younger adult life in the the NHS and then 12 years in voluntary advice giving. Plus a couple of debited gift aid donations to cancer charities . That is enough. I cannot give moneys not knowing how it will be spent. I could not give money to a country that turned viciously on itself like Cambodia. Where are all those ‘skull producers’ now? Perhaps a few are lurking in those so called organisations pretending to help. Directing it to their own pockets. Thanks Simon Marks for research that reveals yet another lying, scheming person looking for money and cuddling up to those with power, be they lawyer or politician.
- Ho Hum
May 31, 2014 at 9:03 am -
Thinking slightly more longitudinally than laterally, condom manufacturers could market their wares as being provided with a printed ‘Consent Warning’ along the lines of ‘By applying this prophylactic and allowing its insertion you hereby explicitly consent… Dah dah’, presumably in rainbow multi colours for all
Of course, the danger is that the first person to apply one with their teeth will sue the manufacturer for it not being able to be seen on application, or that the first vulnerable ‘thickie’ – no intended play on words – will take them to court because they thought prophylactic meant the prevention of sex itself and they were making semen bombs instead
- Ho Hum
May 31, 2014 at 9:05 am -
Sorry, that was a reply to Budvar
- Ho Hum
- The Jannie
May 31, 2014 at 9:04 am -
“Whatever happened to personal responsibility?”
It’s being bred out of succeeding generations by the education system, msm and guvmint . . . until they need someone to blame. - Moor Larkin
May 31, 2014 at 9:41 am -
The BBC ran a very popular series about the glamorous life of being a prozzy a few years back, with Dr. Who’s assistant getting her kit off to great media acclaim. It appears possible now the stories that was based on were not really true either.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2388986/Belle-Jour-lover-I-dont-believe-prostitute-Boyfriend-seven-years-claims-author-invented-notorious-best-selling-sexploits.html
Quelle surprise, as they say in my local boudoir.- Peter Raite
June 2, 2014 at 12:06 pm -
Actually it was ITV2, not the BBC. IIRC, only the first and maybe the second season was supposed to be (loosely) based on Brooke Magnanti experiences, whilst the third and fourth essentially spun off the character into entirely fictional territory. That her ex is keen to sell the Mail the story of just how much of a river in Egypt he is, isn’t really surprising.
- Moor Larkin
June 2, 2014 at 6:07 pm -
Oh was it? Never watched it, but recall watching an excrutiating Graham Norton show with her on at the pek of it’s ‘popularity’. She was appearing supposedly as herself, but it looked like her agent had advised to go on dressed in character, and the poor girl spent the whole show tugging the hem around her upper thighs, down as low as she could, which was pretty pointless. She looked utterly miserable as she clenched her legs together – didnlt even dare cross them I see to recall but I might be wrong. I felt terribly sad for her evident embarrassment. Always best for actors being themselves, to play themselves, rather than their characters I think. I daresay she’s done jolly well at transferring the teenage Who fans into her new career path though. Not sure what she’s done since.
- Moor Larkin
- Peter Raite
- Mr Ecks
May 31, 2014 at 10:43 am -
Belle De Jour ( Brooke Magranti–she has her own blog) certainly was a (forgive the pun) a high-end sex worker. Whether TV showed the “truth” about her exploits is debateable. Has TV ever shown the truth about anything?. She has a long standing animosity with the ex-boyfriend so his account should be taken with a pinch of salt.
- Mudplugger
May 31, 2014 at 3:41 pm -
I prefer the idea of sex-workers working at the ‘low end’ – my ‘high end’ is far to cerebral.
- Duncan Disorderly
May 31, 2014 at 4:56 pm -
Too. Too cerebral.
- Duncan Disorderly
- Mudplugger
- erichardcaster
May 31, 2014 at 1:39 pm -
I give up completely. I am so glad I am the age I am. I believe society is totally fucked.
Just now I click on Twitter link to find this completely outrageous article that infers Rolf Harris is guilty as charged and similar to Clifford, Savile etc.
I believe it’s a contempt of court and yet it’s in Australia’s most respected newspaper. Someone tell em I’m going mad and imagining all this:
http://www.smh.com.au/nsw/why-celebrated-males-think-they-are-licensed-to-offend-20140530-399kx.html#ixzz33IB9fnSn?utm_source=twitter&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=nc&eid=socialn%3Atwi-13omn1677-edtrl-other%3Annn-17%2F02%2F2014-edtrs_socialshare-all-nnn-nnn-vars-o%26sa%3DD%26usg%3DALhdy28zsr6qiq- Jonathan Mason
May 31, 2014 at 4:46 pm -
It all started with Mr. Darcy wowing the chicks with his open top barouche and luxury bachelor pad, and then the Daily Mail readership was titillated beyond belief by Tess of the D’Urbevilles in which an innocent milkmaid was spoiled by a wealthy parvenu and ended up killing him and then being hanged herself.
Not long after that the BBC started and soon the Witchfinder General was bring us a stream of “personalities” and “presenters” and dancing Australians who deflowered the rosy-cheeked maidens of England in wholesale numbers.
It ain’t necessarily so
It ain’t necessarily so
The t’ings dat yo’ li’ble
To read in de Bible,
It ain’t necessarily so. [G. Gershwin]
- Jonathan Mason
- Ho Hum
May 31, 2014 at 2:32 pm -
Society is as fucked as its fearless free press, and those to whom they are willing to give a prominent voice, want it to be
- Ho Hum
May 31, 2014 at 2:34 pm -
/Sighs deeply…that was to Erichardcaster… One day I’ll get this reply, by phone, thing right…
- Ho Hum
May 31, 2014 at 8:38 pm -
Slightly off topic, but here’s a good current example of their excellence in good taste.
https://twitter.com/Real_AndyP/status/472834011417837568/photo/1
Every other profession has some sort of ethics, but if you live in the gutter, I don’t suppose those sort of concepts mean much down there
- Ho Hum
- Ho Hum
- Ho Hum
May 31, 2014 at 3:48 pm -
This lot have missed a trick, though
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-sussex-27623981
Just think how their numbers would rise if there were any expectation of the interplanetary drones offering compensation for the inconvenience of the odd past anal probing excursion. And the Polis could set up Operation Blackhole
I can think on more, but they only get worse……
- Jonathan Mason
May 31, 2014 at 4:35 pm -
Yes, it is the same everywhere. I have seen high paid NGO people in Haiti tooling around in their air-conditioned SUVs, living in large villas with cooks and maids, and making periodical trips back home to raise funds based on their spurious appeals.
Of course there is always some truth underlying the spectacular appeals, but it is generally exaggerated beyond all belief to make it seem more sensational. For example I have read of the Dominican Republic being a hotbed for paedophiles, but having lived there for three years, incredibly I have never met one, though of course does hears of the occasional case like the guy who was having a relationship with a girl of 14 and was blackmailed by her family.
However other Internet sources indicate that the average age at which a prostitute starts her career in the United States is 14. And certainly when I worked in Juvenile Justice in the US, I personally encountered young women in their mid teens who related scores of sexual partners, usually in activities related to getting money for drugs, mostly involving boyfriends or pimps, so you could say these young women were “trafficked”, which is the media mot du jour (as they say in France).
However highlighting the USA as by far the worlds most prolific host country to the trafficking of underage female prostitutes yields no revenues for privileged NGO lifestyles and provokes nothing but a yawn in US media along the lines of “They are just druggies anyway.”
- jemima2013
May 31, 2014 at 8:44 pm -
Great post but I think it is wrong to say Long Pros or Rath were “proved liars” as if they were complicit. They are victims of Mam too, forced to repeat tales of abuse over and over again in exchange for food and a roof over their heads. Somaly Mam apparently told them they were recounting stories that girls too traumatized to be filmed had told her. The foundation has now cast Long Pros adrift, and I presume have as little concern for her as any of Mams other victims.
- Ms Mildred
June 2, 2014 at 9:22 am -
I note that another NGO has just popped up with another higher count of Jimmy Savile’s crimes; putting up the figure to include a 2 year old child, who presumably has recovered memory syndrome! Nothing like a bit of empire building on the part of such an organisation. Mr S, hiding in plain sight from a lot of blind, deaf and very dumb persons around him, surely? If, as one lady has said, that she had some kind of knowledge about his activities; she is slagged off for not ‘doing anything about it’. Yet she founded and stayed with Childline for so many years. I still want to know why they only speak without proof when compo, even if it is paid by the taxpayer, is available. Vicarious liability has been added in the years since these ‘crimes’. Plus there is no statute that stops accusations as far back as 40 to 50 years. There is nothing like throwing a really young child into the recipe to get many people even more hostile and possibly donating.
- Carol42
June 2, 2014 at 2:11 pm -
I saw that report today, I am past disbelief about the whole thing. More empire building on ‘alleged’ victims with no proof that I have seen. I am sure one day we will look back on the persecution of elderly celebrities the way we look at the satanic abuse cases. It is all very depressing.
- Carol42
June 2, 2014 at 2:50 pm -
I made a donation to Cancer Research only because my cousin, a stage 4 breast cancer patient was doing the walk. Despite having had cancer I loathed their stigmatising smokers and the money spent on TV ads. No doubt I will now get endless requests for more but I will stick to my small local charities .
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