A Private Tragedy – A Public Disgrace.
Were you to Google the name – which I’m not going to give you! – you would come up with results running to four figures. Each of those news items have been read hundreds if not thousands of times.
We need news, don’t we? Nay, it is our right to know what is going on in the world around us; a right that journalists fight to preserve. Sure they put a spin on every story, as I am doing now; but it is important that nothing is concealed from us.
When it comes to allegations of a sexual nature, the newspapers have an important role to play; they can publicise the names of people suspected of such offences and possibly bring forward other witnesses or victims to corroborate their case and ensure that a dangerous predator is put behind bars. That is arguably a ‘good’ thing.
‘Beth’ was 29 years old. An adult woman; admittedly not a particularly ambitious career girl, the newspapers soon found her Facebook page and drew inferences from her previous work as a cleaner, a supermarket shelf stacker, and an assistant in a care home. She still lived with her parents. Other members of her divided family disclosed that she was an exceptionally ‘large lady’.
A mental picture was being drawn to explain how it was that her family was unaware that ‘Beth’ was pregnant. Another factor that might have made her keep the information to herself – always supposing that she had realised her condition – was that her Father was a deeply religious man, a community ‘leader’. We may safely assume he would not have exactly welcomed this news.
Thus it was that in the early hours of a frosty November morning, Beth gave birth to a baby in the family bathroom. Paramedics were called who failed to breath life into the newborn child. The question was – had the infant ever drawn breath? Numerous post mortem were unable to establish a cause of death.
You can probably imagine the scene in that cold dawn bathroom – the raised voices, the hysteria, the recriminations, bustling paramedics and in the midst of that – a traumatised young woman who had just given birth.
Along, 12 hours later, with several policemen. Which is perfectly reasonable. If the medical experts cannot say whether someone has died of natural causes, there is always the possibility to be explored that a crime has been committed. ‘Beth’ and her Father were arrested and taken to be interviewed formally – on suspicion that they may have ‘helped’ the child on its way, and conspired to conceal the birth – though of course this is described as the far more newsworthy ‘murder’.
The very word ‘murder’ and the fact that these events occurred at a vicarage in a small village, ensured the bland police statement ‘a 65 year old man and a 29 year old woman’ didn’t take long to turn into click-bait in the national news. Busy journalists found ‘Beth’s’ social media account; tracked down neighbours willing to discuss her physical appearance, her father’s rigid religious outlook.
Police cars and vans then came and went from the house, at the end of a secluded lane next to a farm, throughout last week.
Asked how long people had known of police activity at the vicar’s house, one local replied: “This is a village. Nano-seconds.”
More police activity continued at the house on Thursday as a van arrived with half a dozen officers, who carried a large toolbox into the house.
Did this do anything to assist the case in hand – establishing whether this child was ‘stillborn’ or not? Still, journalists must be free to bring us all the news, right?
A few days later, the stress had got to ‘Beth’s’ father, and he failed to appear to conduct a funeral, allegedly leaving behind instructions which appeared to be for his own funeral. ‘Beth’, it seems, was not willing to disclose who the Father was. It is not the first time in history that a young woman had declined to tell her angry Father who was ‘responsible’. The police carried out DNA tests on the child’s body whilst they still could. Who knows, ‘Beth’ might not have felt ready to disclose an allegation of rape by some local youth yet? Perfectly reasonable action on the part of the police.
This did, of course, allow the media to run headlines such as ‘DNA paternity tests carried out on dead new born as police continue to question vicar’.
Nothing like a good missing vicar story with some sexual innuendo thrown in eh? Somehow, Beth’s Father found the strength to return to his parish a few days later and carry out the Christmas services.
The day before that headline was printed, the police had released an interesting nugget to the media – though for what reason, since it was released ex post facto I cannot imagine:
Lancashire Police later confirmed that [ ] and his daughter were no longer being questioned on suspicion of a sexual offence.
You can’t have a decent hint of sexual impropriety these days without:
It is also understood that police are studying the contents of the vicar’s computer, which was seized when they attended the vicarage.
‘Seized computer’; ‘Sexual Offence’; ‘Vicarage’; ‘DNA Paternity tests’ – this sad affair was turning into click-bait gold. The story was appearing in newspapers worldwide.
That all occurred seventeen months ago. This week the Police finally agreed that no charges would be brought against any one of the three people in that bathroom in November 2014.
Meanwhile ‘Beth’ has been exposed to prurient gossip and international media attention. Her Father has faced such vicious vilification that he has moved to another job – ipso, the family have had to move house. In the midst of this, the couple’s other daughter has died of cancer. It is impossible to comprehend the stress the family has been under.
It is right that the Police should fully investigate every aspect of an unexplained death; if they even suspect that a sexual offence has occurred, then it is right that computers should be seized, houses searched.
What is so very wrong, is that this private family tragedy should have been carried out in the relentless glare of international media attention for no better reason than that the actors formed useful click-bait.
A child was stillborn. End of story.
Not for the people involved, of course.
- thelastfurlong
April 15, 2016 at 1:54 pm -
Moving post – thank you. I have been intrigued by this story myself. But on thought, I think the same disgrace, the scandal, the shame and all the final outcomes for this poor family would have happened in just the same way, a hundred years ago. Worse – they might have been hanged. People have been poisonous throughout time.
- Eric
April 15, 2016 at 2:43 pm -
The one thing the internet has shown us is that there are as many, well more because of the population boom, poisonous people around today as there always has been.
- Joe Public
April 15, 2016 at 3:12 pm -
“The one thing the internet has shown us is that …..” there are some, such as our hostess, who is not afraid to risk occasional opprobrium in order to lucidly explain the ever-present “other side of the story”.
- Joe Public
- Eric
- Jim
April 15, 2016 at 3:38 pm -
Thank you, Anna, for your unsentimental piece. It’s very unsentimentality highlights the sadness and the tragedy. We’ve all been guilty of enjoying gossip and reading scandal. But hopefully most grow out of it, making way for a new generation who follow in our footsteps.
Bloggers and journalists like you might stop them in their tracks for a bit though. And for that the innocent should be grateful. - :Fat Steve
April 15, 2016 at 5:38 pm -
Heartbreaking story ….just heartbreaking…… and nobody’s business but the poor young lady’s and her family’s.
- Ho Hum
April 15, 2016 at 5:54 pm -
I don’t know who these people in this ‘news story’ were. I’m not even going to look it up
I don’t care where they are on what spectrum, if they are left, right, centre, high church, low church or Flying Spaghetti Monsters.
But on the basis of what’s written here, assuming it’s even half way to the truth, I think that they probably have every right to be mightily ‘hacked off’.
They do, don’t they? Or, given some of the comments made here recently, is being ‘hacked off’ a right to be left behind?
- JuliaM
April 15, 2016 at 6:28 pm -
This story has passed me by. But it’s disturbing how often the police response these days is to arrest everyone around the scene of the ‘crime’ before even establishing that a crime has indeed been committed:
The potential consequences for those arrested seem to be shrugged off.
- Penseivat
April 15, 2016 at 6:57 pm -
Before any arrest is made “on suspicion of….”, there has to be a reasonable assumption that it is suspected an arrestable offence has been committed. So far as far as I am aware, there is not yet grounds to arrest ” so we can go on a fishing expedition”, at least, there wasn’t in my day, fortunately. Very few Police officers, if any, are qualified coroners or doctors and so they must wait for confirmation, one way or another. The vicar and his daughter weren’t’t going anywhere and could have been interviewed, or not, after that confirmation had been given. Any Police officer, doctor, or social worker MUST be able to justify their suspicions, in a court of law if necessary. It appears, in this case, that no one was required to justify their suspicions and, instead of the authorities simply moving on to their next suspect, leaving a shattered family behind them, they should all be hauled before a public, very public, enquiry.
- JuliaM
April 16, 2016 at 6:51 am -
They should indeed.
They won’t be.
- JuliaM
- Flubber
April 15, 2016 at 7:44 pm -
“But it’s disturbing how often the police response these days is to arrest everyone around the scene of the ‘crime’ before even establishing that a crime has indeed been committed:”
Not to mention the seizure of any computing device so the cops can go on a fishing expedition.
- JuliaM
April 16, 2016 at 6:53 am -
Quite. See also the SAS guy done for a souvenir weapon found while cops were investigating a burglary at his house.
Wonder if they ever caught the burglar? Did they even care about that, once they found the gun?
- Retired
April 16, 2016 at 6:32 pm -
I think in this case it was a case of ‘hell hath no fury’ and his ex bubbled him up as it seems it was a fairly acrimonious divorce. He also had a total of five weapons and some 200 rounds of ammunition. It looks the the burglary was when the ex wife of the said SAS man alleged that items had gone missing from the house when the brother of Patterson went round the house to collect some of his stuff. Was there ever a burglary in the first case? Some first class efforts in mitigation by his brief however.
There is not a lot of sympathy for him on the Army Rumour Service website either.
http://www.herefordtimes.com/news/14427804.SAS_hero_jailed_for_illegal_guns_found_in_Hereford_cellar/%3E/
- Retired
- JuliaM
- Mudplugger
April 15, 2016 at 8:15 pm -
The two key issues seem to be firstly, the indecent haste with which Police feel a need to demonstrate ‘action’ by formalising an arrest ahead of any confirmation of an offence having been committed. And second, the enthusiasm with which the media encourages the seeking of the self-evident ‘fire’ origin from which their virtual ‘smoke’ was sourced.
The police issue could be solved by a mixture of procedural and common sense (rare, but possible), but the media one is trickier – that one comes back down to the difference between the public interest and what interests the public.
I credit most contributors here with generally higher interests than the ‘public’ is considered to have but, as it’s that lower level which sells the volume product, by paper or click-bait, then the purveyors of that product will continue their quest for the lowest common denominator, leaving collateral damage like this unfortunate and innocent duo to pay the perpetual price of their prurience. - Ed P
April 15, 2016 at 11:30 pm -
I knew nothing about these events, due to an aversion to MSM opinions, sorry “news”.
So my observation is just that the police are no longer “fit for purpose” (as a Home Secretary once said about the Home Office). I can’t be the only one who expects the police force to be impartial, apolitical and independent of political control, as they were from Robert Peel’s time until approximately the 1980s. I don’t know how it happened, but somehow between then and now, they have become the Thought Police, unconcerned with old-fashioned crimes such as robbery and murder, solely concerned now with contrived nonsense about political correctness, perceived racism and similarly hard-to-define thought crimes.
Taking a long view, the current societal attitudes, and what now constitutes a crime in the diseased mind or “public opinion”, suggest we are rapidly approaching the end of Western civilisation, with many echoes of the fall of Rome.- JuliaM
April 16, 2016 at 6:55 am -
But we can’t have bread and circuses. Because wheat intolerance, and animal welfare.
- Don Cox
April 17, 2016 at 11:07 am -
If these “news” stories aren’t circuses, I don’t know what is.
And Syria, too.
- Don Cox
- JuliaM
- Eric
April 16, 2016 at 1:52 am -
If paramedics were called to attend the bathroom it’s hard to see how a case of ‘concealing a birth’ could even be contemplated unless it’s now an offense to conceal a pregnancy. It seems police now go on a fishing expedition to see what charges they can come up with which can always be dropped later despite the distress they may cause. Very common in the USA as a tactic to force a plea deal for a lesser charge to save time & costs.
- Andrew Duffin
April 18, 2016 at 11:34 am -
I’d never heard this story before (I don’t get out much…) but the only possible conclusion is that the police have become disgusting out-of-control media whores.
If the story was as they hinted, there was nobody outside the household involved, therefore no need whatever for any publicity at all until they had their evidence and their case prepared. Certainly no need (as if there ever is!) for any of the nudge-nudge wink-wink know-what-we’re-saying-here muckraking prurience that they seem to have displayed in this case, amongst many others.
I am horrified. It’s time for a clean-out. Bring back Peel.
Feh.
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