It started in America…!
And like everything from US Marines, to Global financial meltdown – for sure it will arrive on our shores eventually. I find it a horrifying prospect.
I went in search of further information on a snippet I had read – and three days later I must have read close on a quarter of a million words, and am still struggling to make sense of how a private family tragedy turned into a multi-million dollar business with political ambitions for the highest office.
It is not a ‘story’ we know in the UK, so I will do my best to précis it, since I am so sure that we will end up with a similar tale of our own. Forewarned is forearmed. Apologies for a long post.
Near 20 years ago, August 1997, two young girls, Lauren and Samantha, and their little brother Chase, were living in their parent’s palatial water front mansion in Miami. A well to do ‘upper-middle class’ family as we would say. A series of nannies looked after the children – Mum ‘had mental health issues’ and Dad a plethora of Miami business interests that meant he also had no time to care for the children.
Lauren, then aged 11 had taken to sleeping with her little brother, a bed she says that the new ‘nanny’ took to sharing with her – of sister Samantha, then 9 there seems little trace. I would have liked to hear her story.
Lauren’s story, in short, is that the latest nanny, 30 year old Waldina Flores, a Honduran national whose status regarding her right to live and work in the US appears to be in some dispute, sexually abused her. I don’t intend to take anything away from Lauren’s story – for what happened to her was wrong, totally wrong, unforgivably wrong – but the sequel contains just as many wrongs.
My interest was piqued by a news report where Lauren said “I was raped every day for six years”. It didn’t take long to turn up Lauren’s book – of course she has written a book – actually she now has a bachelor’s degree in Creative Writing and a master’s degree in Community Psychology and Social Change. Impressive. I sat down to read the book…
Not exactly ‘raped every day for six years’. More a case of a young girl who felt unloved, who was slowly groomed by a sadistic Lesbian into mistaking sexual advances which progressed from giving her a ‘French kiss’ (whilst improbably trying to divest her of chewing gum she had refused to spit out) to sharing the bed she shared with her young brother, to persuading her to participate in sexual activity, as legitimate ‘caring about her’.
As I said; unforgivable, including the physical punishments, certainly legally ‘rape’, but a gradual progression over four years is not ‘raped every day for six years’. There is a reason why the description of what happened to Lauren is being turned into emotive shorthand that evokes images of beery breathed men forcing themselves on her daily. It has become financially and politically rewarding to a degree you will find hard to believe.
For six years, neither the siblings she shared a bed with, nor either of her parents were aware of these events. Eventually the nanny ‘Waldo’ persuaded her to take up with a young man, Kris Lim, whom she went onto marry in a million dollar extravaganza that appeared in a reality show. ‘Daddy’s little Princess’ she was billed as.
However, long before their marriage, Kris Lim, then boyfriend, had ‘noticed’ bruises on her body in places ‘that were so well hidden’ no other member of her family was aware. Lauren now warns others that this is one of the defining attributes of a predatory paedophile – the ability to only hurt you where it won’t show.
I would say that given Lauren was 11 in 1997, and that the legal age of consent in Florida is 18, I am slightly surprised that no one was alarmed by Kris Lim being aware of these ‘hidden places’ when Lauren was a mere 15/16. Perhaps the fact that Lauren, who by her own admission in her book wanted only to be ‘the centre of attention’, decided to tell her family of this ‘four years’ (not six) of sexual abuse two days after America was traumatised by the events of 9/11, not surprisingly overshadowed the periphery details.
The news, from her description, was ‘as if a bomb went off in our house’. Lauren was – the.centre.of.attention. For she was no ordinary Miami millionaire’s daughter. Ron Book, her Father, has been involved with Florida politics for almost 40 years, starting with working in the Florida House of Representatives. He eventually rose to prominence as head of one of the top lobbying firms in the country. Last year alone, his firm earned $5.6 million in fees, with an average annual retainer of $69,000 per client. His extensive and impressive client list includes the University of Miami, Sun Life Stadium, AT&T, and Miami Project to Cure Paralysis.
Now Ron Book may not have had much time to show his daughter the affection she craved – but give him a product to market and preferably one that lends itself to changing legislation – and he is your ‘man’. The best. He roared into action. He continues to roar.
Waldina Flores faced 36 years in prison, however, she pleaded ‘no contest’ at her trial, and accepted a plea deal. She was sentenced to 15 years behind bars and 15 years of probation.
The confused state that Lauren was in is obvious:
So I thought, as I walked out of the courtroom that day, I have got to get in contact with her. I’m so sorry. I just don’t want her to be mad at me. And so we started a letter-writing campaign back and forth. And in the first letter I wrote to her, I said, I know you can’t write me, but I will do this for however long it takes till you get out.
The above paragraph is somewhat buried in the subsequent story – to be sure, Lauren wrote to Waldy first…
To my surprise, you know, right after that – it was in December – I got a letter from her. And during that – those letter writings back and forth, she would ask me to get the governor to try and get her out of prison.
There has been much subsequent publicity of the fact that Lauren’s Dad lobbied for and got, legislation ‘to stop sex offenders contacting victim’s’ from jail. “When Flores wrote Lauren love letters from jail”, he ushered through the Lauren Book Protection Act, which makes any contact by a convicted sex offender with a victim punishable by prison.
Two years later, she was found guilty of violating an order not to contact Book after writing her letters from prison.
Ten more years were added to her prison term.
Lauren, at 18, too timid to speak out, formed a not-for-profit organisation called “Lauren’s Kid’s” for the entirely reasonable aim – to encourage other children to speak out when they are abused. She has visually recovered from the anorexia that occurred simultaneously – perhaps as a direct result of her abuse – with her early teenage years.
The fact that her Father is the Chief Executive and driving force is pertinent. Lauren has become the iconic ‘poster child’ for a powerful lobbying force. It would seem that the time he couldn’t spare Lauren as a child, the time he didn’t have to carry out due diligence on the Nanny’s background, he now has to spend in spades – wreaking his revenge on any and every sex offender in the State of Florida and beyond.
Do remember that in Florida the term ‘sex offender’ refers even to a couple fooling around sunbathing on the beach:
Alvarez moving on top of Caballero in a sexual manner in broad daylight. Witnesses testified a 3-year-old girl saw them.
Ron Book has used the vehicle of ‘Lauren’s Kids’ to ensure that no registered sex offender can live within 2,500 feet of children – a piece of legislation that would have done nothing to protect his daughter – Waldy wasn’t a registered sex offender – but has resulted not only in many dangerous paedophiles being released from prison to wander aimlessly as homeless persons, unable even to access electricity to charge up their electronic tags, nor to rebuild their lives hopefully in a way that would make them less of a danger to other children – but has also had a knock on effect on hundreds of thousands of other children.
They are the children of all those offenders such as the couple fooling around on a sunny beach. The legislation doesn’t just refer to dangerous paedophiles. There are estimated to be some 150,000 children, some as young as 8, who have been placed on the register.
The American Journal of Criminal Justice has published a survey which shows that some 156,000 children have been physically attacked – because they had a relative on the register. Another 97,500 children have suicidal tendencies – as a direct result of a relative having fallen foul of the sex offender laws, resulting in homelessness, loss of job and income and restrictions on contact even with their own children. Does nobody care about these children? Does being the relative of someone on the register so taint you that it is OK if you are attacked or self harm?
The tale doesn’t end there. Ron has used his superb top level political contacts to top up the coffers of ‘Lauren’s Kid’s’ with nearly $7 million in taxpayer funds, along with impressive sums from all his previous clients and another $3.8 million expected when the new state budget goes through. The money is being used in some surprising ways.
Supporters of Lauren and ‘her’ drive to rid the state of all sex offenders, recently attend a rally in Tallahassee. Father Ron has boasted of the number of state employees that ‘decided’ to join in. All were issued with matching blue shirts and badges showing their allegiance to Laurenskids. A number of journalists have attested to witnessing that some of the ‘youngsters’ were armed.
Lauren is now equipped with a greyhound bus, a cavalcade of police accompanied her triumphant arrival (with Ron in running shorts sweating beside her) at the State Capitol to be greeted by the State Governor. Blue smoke bombs were set off at the finale giving the march a military flavour. The town was littered with ‘blue paw’ (Lauren’s personal logo) stickers. A plane flew overhead trailing a ‘Lauren’s Kids’ banner.
A war chest of $10 million? A sophisticated public relations outfit. A youth army in matching shirts marching in serried ranks in support of a plan to ‘cleanse’ the neighbourhood of ‘sub-humans’?
Within days of these events, news came that will not surprise you. Lauren had formed a ‘political committee’. The resident Senator, Eleanor Sobel, is retiring.
Documents show how the organization raises and spends its funds. A 2012 golf tournament had gross receipts of $224,605 but expenses of $192,998. The walk that year raised $396,015; expenses were $171,104. Lauren’s Kids paid Ron Sachs, a communications firm that reps political insiders, $670,032. Sachs’ firm won an Addy award for its design of a billboard that shows Lauren against a purple backdrop. “Lauren Book,” it says. “Survivor. Educator. Advocate.”
Steve Geller, who served 20 years in the Legislature, was considering running for the District 33 seat but now says he won’t bother. Lauren, he says, “is a very formidable candidate” who has “virtually unlimited funds in a primary. I don’t know any people who’d want to run against millions in a primary.”
A cult of personality built around a photogenic abuse ‘survivor’, with a righteous marching army of brown blue shirts, buoyed by millions of tax payer dollars, and a Father with a network of powerful allies in the corridors of power would be hard, very hard, to beat.
I hope I don’t live to see it happen in England. I’ve got a long memory.
- Moor Larkin
May 19, 2015 at 9:10 am -
Sex is clearly worse than death and evidently there is only one final solution to the horror.
“Robert Neville looked out over the new people of the earth. He knew he did not belong to them; he knew that, like the vampires, he was anathema and black terror to be destroyed. And, abruptly, the concept came, amusing to him even in his pain. … Full circle. A new terror born in death, a new superstition entering the unassailable fortress of forever. I am legend.”
- JuliaM
May 20, 2015 at 5:29 am -
Ah, well, at least the soundtrack will be good…
- JuliaM
- corevalue
May 19, 2015 at 9:15 am -
There are moves afoot in the States to make even those fumbling movements towards holding your girlfriend’s hand illegal. Even if she welcomes the act, unless you have prior express permission, it’s agin’ the law. And a third party could report you…..
No more surprise greetings at airports and railways stations, no more spontaneous hugs.
- ivan
May 19, 2015 at 12:28 pm -
Wasn’t the US colonised by the Puritans? What goes round comes round.
Not that it makes the feminist cause any more palatable, in fact in this it puts it parallel with the ‘religion of peace’, not a good comparison.
- Moor Larkin
May 20, 2015 at 9:40 am -
re. Puritans
It’s a little more subtle than that in America though, Ivan. The USA must be the most sexualised society in the history of the world. Almost everything they do in the public sphere has to be “sexy”. Their entire culture at times seems to revolve around the notion that sexual attraction powers not just the people but their commerce and even their politics (ugly politicians need not apply). That sexualism changes over the decade from simpering girlies in pretty taffeta atop car bonnets to powerful “sexy” women atop their grunting SUV, but it’s all still about power and sex. Their footballers are pre-empted by sexy girlies flinging sticks and skirts in the air and offering vibrant youthful sex. It’s all sex, sex, sex. They are truly obsessed by sexiness, like a society that has overthrown the puritan and revels in the freedom to let it all hang out.What I think has scared the pants off them in the internet age is the erect male penis. I recall many years ago, discussing with a female friend about the strange divergence whereby men seemed to like seeing porn but women never seemed overly interested, and she youthfully remarked that this was because they never showed what women were really interested in…
The internet, if it did anything radically different in the porn game, was to release the erect phallus upon a western world that had previously ensured it was never seen. Think about all the high art that is often compared to porn to demonstrate that there is no difference really, tits bums and willies in painting on the gallery walls – but never a hard-on. I really do think that at base, the society is like a young virgin who has suddenly seen a big one and has become terrified of what this means and is rushing about demanding that somebody cut it off before it hurts somebody.
- Moor Larkin
- ivan
- Roderick
May 19, 2015 at 9:37 am -
It may not be entirely coincidental but in many countries, particularly in Asia, public displays of affection, including holding hands, are frowned upon. In some cultures it is technically illegal to be in close proximity at any time with an unchaperoned member of the opposite sex to whom you are not either married or a blood relative. So for example, offering a lift in your car to a work colleague in the pouring rain is risky for both of you. (Edit – see Moor Larkin’s post above for more.) This law is enforced by religious police, and the penalties for transgression can be brutal. The religion in question? Guess.
Given Britain’s seemingly unstoppable desire to worship at the altar of multi-culturalism, it can only be a matter of time before we are similarly enriched…
- Moor Larkin
May 19, 2015 at 9:53 am -
* in many countries, particularly in Asia, public displays of affection, including holding hands, are frowned upon. *
England around 1950 I should imagine….
The past is a very foreign country but is becoming more familiar now I am learning what it must have been like to live there.- Little Black Sambo
May 19, 2015 at 1:02 pm -
There should, however, be a law against Prime Ministers holding hands with their wives in public. It happens even at church services.
- Moor Larkin
May 19, 2015 at 3:53 pm -
I hope she at least had her hair covered…
- Moor Larkin
- Little Black Sambo
- Chris
May 19, 2015 at 9:57 am -
Work on the principle that, culture-wise, America was always about 20 years ahead of the UK – though that gap is closing.
It wasn’t until recently that I understood why Kurt Cobain blew his brains out with a gun in 1994, but I can see the perfect sense in it now.- Moor Larkin
May 19, 2015 at 10:56 am -
Can’t wait for the Biker Gangs to arrive… again…
They really do watch way too much TV over there I think.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sons_of_Anarchy- Chris
May 19, 2015 at 11:12 am -
Talking of TV, remember in the film A Clockwork Orange when Alex gets out of chokey to find his old ultraviolent vengeful Droogs are now Police Officers? Sure I saw something on telly last night with coppers mistreating elderly men, not too far removed from this..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oWLByMshYIU
- Chris
- Moor Larkin
- windsock
May 19, 2015 at 10:40 am -
What? Are you suggesting that anyone in the British political classes could ever exploit their own tragic history, such as personal experience of abuse, for their own political advantage? Well, I suppose one person’s cynicism is another person’s truth…
- alan1803
May 19, 2015 at 10:41 am -
Small point: I’m pretty sure the age of consent in Florida is 16.
- Moor Larkin
May 19, 2015 at 10:48 am -
Married or unmarried?
California says it is 18, unless you marry the bitch, in which case 16 will do.
- Moor Larkin
- Mark II
May 19, 2015 at 10:51 am -
She has “a master’s degree in Community Psychology and Social Change” – I would say that sounds positively Orwellian but I suppose it is Obamian, if there is such a word.
- The Blocked Dwarf
May 19, 2015 at 12:04 pm -
” but I suppose it is Obamian”
Obamaful
- Moor Larkin
May 19, 2015 at 3:53 pm -
Just plain obarmy perhaps.
- Moor Larkin
- Cascadian
May 19, 2015 at 5:23 pm -
“a master’s degree in Community Psychology and Social Change”………roll that one around your head for a few seconds.
Is this not the very root of many of our problems, people pretending to understand how a community “thinks” and additionally what “social changes” are required to effect the perceived “community psychology”. Very dangerous people, almost as bad as a PPE. Of course the end game appears to be attaining a very powerful Senators seat using “charity” status to fundraise.
Then again what she and her father are doing is not so very disimmilar to Hil-liar-y Clinton.
- Mark II
May 19, 2015 at 5:26 pm -
It certainly has a “common purpose” ring to it.
- Mark II
- The Blocked Dwarf
- tom
May 19, 2015 at 11:38 am -
Some Background from Carl Hiassen + Miami Herald – who might be known top some of you….
Politicians send Millions $$$ to charity of lobbyist’s daughter
Ron Book has a record of “dipping the taxpayers account” that is second to none ….
- Alex
May 19, 2015 at 1:12 pm -
The whole thing reeks of fraud and deception, very much along the lines of the many evangelical TV preachers who have been exposed as con-men in the USA. I know the nanny is serving jail time, but I do wonder how good her defence lawyer was when faced with the weight and force of the prosecution, a similar situation that many better placed celebrities have found themselves in recently.
- The Blocked Dwarf
May 19, 2015 at 1:37 pm -
Do remember that in Florida the term ‘sex offender’ refers even to a couple fooling around sunbathing on the beach
I’m tempted to say it could never happen here -Norfolk beaches being far too cold for al fresco sex even in high summer, no Dogging in the Dog Days. But too many memories of icey, “from Putin With Love” winds blowing up teenage bums leads me to wonder how many of us, the Regulars, would not be here supping this lunchtime if our parents had lived in today’s Florida. I think Old Ma Dwarf did recount that she and Papa Dwarf did infact make it back , drunkenly, studently, to her flat in Mellish Court (to return to Sunday’s Tower Block theme) before the animal urges overtook them…but I seem to recall, from photos of 1960s’ Bletchley, a large park type area around there….
- Moor Larkin
May 19, 2015 at 3:52 pm -
I was tripping in Brighton last summer and a guy was making a point of standing on the hillock of the “Nudist Beach”, not hiding, but in plain sight. What made me laugh were the Japanese (or maybe Chinese these days?) tourists actually climbing the shingle to get a picture of him. I can remember back in the Seventies when that was designated the first Nudist beach in Britain. Nobody explained it was really only for gay men. Are there any other nudist beaches in Britain nowadays does anyone know?
- Mrs Grimble
May 19, 2015 at 7:22 pm -
Yes, there are plenty of clothes-free beaches. Although not all of them on this list are ‘official’ (i.e. you can legally walk around as nature intended) but on the ‘unofficial’ ones, behaving with due circumspection shouldn’t get you arrested.
There are unfortunately a (very small) minority of men who go to these beaches for the sole purpose of behaving very uncircumspectly; its a large part of why there are so few official naturist beaches in the UK. But, perverts aside, it’s a great way of spending a hot summer’s day.- Ancient+Tattered Airman
May 19, 2015 at 7:29 pm -
And I am Cornish as well as ancient yet still had no idea of the number of such sites in the delectable Duchy!
- Bill Sticker
May 20, 2015 at 6:42 am -
Aberdeen? Northumberland? Argyll and Sutherland? Those are Spartans only naturist beaches. Hot summer days being at a premium in oop norf.
- Ancient+Tattered Airman
- Mrs Grimble
- Moor Larkin
- Duncan Disorderly
May 19, 2015 at 2:14 pm -
“A half-million dollar budget gets blown out of the water when Daddy’s Princess gets every wedding wish she ever desired.”
Don’t he just.
- Peter Raite
May 19, 2015 at 2:54 pm -
So the nanny got her sentence increased because she replied to letters her victim sent to her first?
- Mark II
May 19, 2015 at 3:16 pm -
Turning a tragedy into a cash generating opportunity is the American way – take a look at Carlos Arredondo one of the most prominent Boston bombing heroes, the guy in the cowboy hat.
He went from illegal immigrant to a friend of David Rockefeller in a matter of weeks – living the dream!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eHWkRj5JfMc
- Mrs Grimble
May 19, 2015 at 7:44 pm -
Illegal immigrant? OK, he entered the US illegally, but he became a US citizen in 2006, seven years before the Boston bombing; his citizenship was granted on the grounds that his US-born son had died on active service in Iraq. He was at the marathon to watch the local Samaritans team, who were running in memory of that son and his other son, who had taken his own life.
Here’s a tip for you, Mark – gratis and for free. If you want to taken seriously, don’t link to tinfoil-hat conspiracy videos, or invoke Illuminati connections.
- Mark II
May 19, 2015 at 8:15 pm -
The old tinfoil-hat condemnation wins the argument every time especially when given gratis and for free.
- Mark II
- Alexander Baron
May 19, 2015 at 7:57 pm -
The sex on the beach case is another example of the tyranny of plea bargaining; it would never have happened in the UK, and these two would have been treated less severely in Dubai!
- Alexander Baron
May 19, 2015 at 8:19 pm -
I mentioned this in another thread, re Ray Teret:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/b05whvjr/the-detectives-2-interrogation
there appears to have been hard evidence against him.
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